Light SquaredCome Sit With MeIf you find me huddled in a pit, cold and scared and sad Reach out your arm to lift me up, stretch out for me your hand2 min read·Feb 8, 2021----
Light SquaredDancing the Twelve Step because there is no Two StepI’m in a 12-step program having never used alcohol or drugs.3 min read·Feb 8, 2021----
Light SquaredI Don’t Know How to Be a Man“I don’t mean to speak for anyone else, but I’ve been a man for 34 years now and I think I know a bit about how men think.”3 min read·Feb 5, 2021----
Light SquaredI Am a White WomanTo be humane, to be anti-racist, to see people as our equals is to know that if we shed our skins, there would be no easy way to tell us…2 min read·Feb 3, 2021----
Light SquaredWhat They Said About Me Was TrueI was mocked relentlessly for being gay while growing up, even though I wasn’t out. I was a very naive child so I didn’t even know I was…4 min read·Feb 1, 2021----
Light SquaredDispatch from the Tunnel (21.01.30)My contribution today to my healing and to our shared experience is to write even though my chest feels heavy and my mind feels uncertain…5 min read·Jan 30, 2021----
Light SquaredYou Can (In)Validate Me“Only you can validate yourself,” says the group therapist to a member of the support group who has just shared that he feels unworthy…4 min read·Jan 29, 2021----
Light SquaredIt’s All In Your Head, Except It’s NotI’m sitting in a circle of white faces. I hate saying that because race shouldn’t matter, but it does, so I have to say it. The only other…6 min read·Jan 27, 2021----
Light SquaredThe Paradox of Our Lonely WorldI can’t imagine I’m the world’s loneliest man, though at times I feel like I am. I’d like to believe I’m not the world’s most…4 min read·Jan 8, 2021----